I don't have pile of papers and no mountain of work in front of me so I am all set to free. Random thoughts were hitting my mind and so I finally decided to pen them down. In fact, yes I know why such thoughts were revolving in my mind, I heard talk by Nouman Ali and the topic was The Healthy Marriage. A totally realistic talk and words, thumbs up for him. Majority of the women in our society are having same problems about their MAN. And most of the important which I have heard from married women are;
"Why He Always Leave Stuff Lying Around And Mess Up Things"
This is the question in girls mind all the time and later comparisons are being made like; If I can be organized then why can't he ? Gosh, girls grow up. What I think is HE don't want to irritate you in any case out, neither he is your enemy that what ever you will say he would do opposite to that. Let me narrate you a talk I had with my friend's hubby, both of them were having some conflicts.
Ashi : Ask him why he don't hang out his coat after coming back from office?
Ali : If my coat is lying on the couch I will feel much more at home.
Ashi : Why he place his wallet at different places every other day?
Ali : Simply, I fall in love with ashi when I say "Ashiiii mera wallet nahi mil raha" and ashi came up having wallet in hand and some anger in eyes saying "khud hi rakhtey hain phir aashii aasshi kartey hain "
Now just see are these major issues, are these things to worry about and loose patience ? No they are absolutely not. Women should try to understand that their MAN loves them and do such acts just because they love them more and more. If you are making it an issue then eventually you are doing bad to yourself.
Issues can be driven out if you want. But if you want to drive your man and his acts out then I would suggest to quit it. You will regret it later, there is no one like him you can be with.
Think over it,